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Honestly, most of my year was consumed by planning the Botty Watty Wedding part 2. In 2023 we visited Mallorca with our besties and fell in love with our dream wedding venue (pictured on the left). And in September 2025 we got to turn that dream into reality and throw the party of a lifetime and celebrate our matrimony with 100 of our nearest and dearest (pictured on the right). It was honestly the weekend of a lifetime, I could (and will!) write endlessly about it. I'm so pr

Like all good running stories, my journey begins with a crisis of the self.  Let’s travel back in time. 13 years ago I crash landed in...

2024 reflections

Or Q1 if you're American. I want to write more, but week notes are too hard with the type of work I'm doing and I was super busy at the...

SO HAPPY to say that I just completed the NHS's couch to 5k programme

I took a long hiatus from blogging, stopping in May 2020. A couple of weeks into lockdown life. I stopped writing for a few of reasons:...

The #InterviewSeries is a collection of intimate discussions with people who identify as a woman or a non-binary person in the technical...

Image of the lake in Crystal Palace park from one of my isolation walks Well if March was a shit show, April was a shit STORM. It was...

Well, well, well, where to begin? We're all in the same boat, some of us coping better than others. At first, I have to admit, I didn't...

And approaching other difficult conversations What to expect in this post: 1) Why boundary setting is important to me 2) What helped me...

Whewwwww it’s been a minute since I’ve had the time or energy to write. But I did intend for my break to be a break and not the end of my...

A career in consulting My name is Rob Graham. I’m a Senior Consultant at Deloitte, where I work on designing organisations that are going...